We all have people around us that don't quite make sense. It may be due to their motives. But it's not that difficult to identify someone whose actions and words don't match. When you compare only those 2 things about a person:
- Actions = 1
- Words = 1
The total should always be:
Truth = 2
When someone's actions and words don't match exactly you have a problem.
It's simple but we tend to flub the math when other factors weigh in.
I'm referring to how most people would like to be seen as complicated and mysterious.
Nearly everyone wants that (up to a certain level of maturity) but absolutely no one is either of those things. We're all simple and we're all boring. Make the most of it.
One last thing. The post about Diagram mentioned there's always 2 voices.
There's deeper meaning in that.
When you have a conversation with someone you might not be aware that each of you have 2 voices.
The first voice says polite, social, weather related things to the other.
Those are just distractions.
The second communicates without our notice, faster than we can think, and makes few mistakes.
Which one do you think recognizes ulterior motives?
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