Incursion

Backward or forward or "backward-backward":

• "I do know who you are.  I don't want to know who you want to be."
• "I don't know who you are.  I do need to know who you need to be"

• "You don't know who they are.  You do need to know who they want to be."
• "You do know who they are.  You don't need to know who the need to be."

• "They do know who they are.  They don't want to know who they want to be."
• "They don't know who they are.  They do need to know who they need to be."

"Suggestions" to "change who an individual" is (with or without their "awareness") or cause an "incursion".